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Quora Answers: Narcissists And Supply Sources

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How Will A Narcissist Act Around His Former Supply After Being Discarded By His Latest Supply?

A Narcissist has a revolving door in his harem, so sources of supply come and go.

At any time, heā€™ll have plenty of choices at his disposal. There will always be former, current, and random sources riding the Narcissistic merry-go-round.

For the most part, they wonā€™t know about one another. His behavior around each will depend on who heā€™s mirroring at the time.

When a narcissist is hoovering a previous source, they generally use the same M.O. every time.

They call, or show up, out of the blue to catch the target off guard. Then a form of renewed love-bombing begins.

ā€œIā€™ve been missing you lately, and couldnā€™t stop thinking about you. I see now what I had with you. Youā€™re everything to me.

I mustā€™ve been out of my mind to leave you. Youā€™re so beautiful and smart and sexy.

I had to break up with Jane because sheā€™s not you. Just give me another chance.

I promise I learned my lesson. I realize how much I love you. Thatā€™s why I had to come see you.

Plus, Jane is crazy . . . .

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Quora Answers: What Makes A Narcissist Keep Going Back To A Certain Ex?

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Do Narcissists Recycle Certain Exes?

Narcissists absolutely recycle exes, and the reasons vary.

Sometimes it’s because the ex still has something monetary that the narc wants.

Sometimes it’s for sex.

A lot of times it’s because the narc is bored.

So he’ll play a sadistic game by torturing his ex.

The mind-fuckery that’s so painful to victims is big fun to narcissists.

Another reason a narcissist recycles an ex is pure ego.

It makes them feel powerful by proving they still have power over a former partner.

Whatever the particular reason happens to be, it’s always a bad deal for the ex.

She’ll initially be hopeful that the narc is sincere.

But it will quickly become evident that his intentions were only to benefit himself.

And for every subsequent time she takes him back, her suffering will intensify.

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Quora Answers: Narcissists And Hoovering

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Why Do Narcissists Call And Say They Love You After They Discarded You?

After a Narcissist has discarded you, they will often call you or stop by for a visit with one goal in mind.

They want to suck you back into the nightmare of abuse.

This is what’s commonly referred to as hoovering.

They do it because itā€™s fun for them.

Narcissists become bored very quickly.

They seek entertainment at their victimsā€™ expense.

By stringing you along with words of love and affection, they can tease you with hopes of reconciliation.

They’ll make you think they now realize how much you meant to them.

And that another try at the relationship will be different.

Make no mistake.

Things will only be better for a short time.

And it’s just an illusion.

Whether you know it or not, they still have other sources of supply.

Even during the renewed love-bombing phase, although theyā€™ll never admit it.

If you allow the narc another chance to torment you, it will be much worse than the previous time.

Because now he has your permission to abuse you again.

They see your forgiveness of their bad behavior as acceptance of abuse.

So theyā€™ll relish causing you as much pain as possible.

Please donā€™t fall for it.

Narcissists donā€™t change.

They do not magically transform into good and loving people.

If heā€™s telling you he loves you, heā€™s telling you he loves to use and abuse you.

I urge you to avoid any contact or communication with your tormentor.

If you’re still dependent on him financially, have support payments directly deposited into your bank account.

You will never be able to heal as long as he has access to your emotions.

Thatā€™s what heā€™s counting on because he doesnā€™t want you to heal.

Itā€™s too fun for him to continue to hurt you.

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Quora Answers: Narcissists And Hoovering

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Why Does The Narcissist Want Me Back Now That Iā€™ve Grown As A Person And Feel Better?

Narcissists enjoy a challenge.

Destroying your newfound happiness will be fun for him. Thatā€™s ultimately why narcissists hoover previous victims.

Sucking you back into the cycle of abuse will prove that he still has power over you.

I donā€™t know what the circumstances of your relationship with the narcissist happened to be. Or how it ended.

But this could also be about revenge.

If you left him, heā€™s definitely going to want to cause you as much pain this time around as possible.

Relationships are games to narcissists. And they cannot allow someone to beat them. Period.

But if you left him, it would mean he lost.

And a narcissist simply cannot lose!!

So heā€™ll stop at nothing to convince you to take him back in order to change the outcome.

At first, itā€™ll seem like a dream come true, but then quickly turn into your worst nightmare.

I sincerely hope you donā€™t allow him back into your life.

I promise youā€™ll end up regretting it.

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Quora Answers: Narcissistic Behaviors

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Why Do Narcissists Call And Say I Love You After They Discarded You?

After a Narcissist has discarded you, they will often call you or stop by for a visit with one goal in mind.

They want to suck you back into the nightmare of abuse.

Because itā€™s fun for them.

Narcissists become bored very quickly. So they seek entertainment for themselves at their victimsā€™ expense.

By stringing you along with words of love and affection, they can tease you with hopes of reconciliation.

They will make you think that not only do they now realize how much you meant to them, but that another try at the relationship will be different.

Make no mistake. Things will only be better for a short time, and even that is just an illusion.

Whether you know it or not, they still have their other sources of supply.

Even during the renewed love-bombing phase. Though theyā€™ll never admit it.

If you allow the narcissist another chance to torment you, it will be much worse than the previous time.

Because they now have your permission to abuse you again.

They see your forgiveness of their bad behavior as acceptance of their abuse.

And theyā€™ll relish in causing you as much pain as possible.

Please donā€™t fall for it.

Narcissists donā€™t change. They do not magically transform into good and loving people.

If heā€™s telling you he loves you, heā€™s telling you he loves to use and abuse you.

I urge you to avoid any contact or communication with your tormentor.

Even if you are still dependent on him financially, find a way to have support payments directly deposited into your bank account.

You will never be able to heal as long as he has access to your emotions.

Thatā€™s what heā€™s counting on. He doesnā€™t want you to heal.

Itā€™s too much fun for him to continue to hurt you.

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