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What Makes A Narcissist Stalk A Victim For A Decade? Is This Normal?

For a personality-disordered narcissist, it’s not unusual to stalk a victim for many years.

But it definitely isn’t the behavior of a normal, rational human being.

When a narcissist continues to stalk a victim for such a lengthy period of time, two motives come to mind.

One probability is that the narc is still thoroughly enjoying the cat-and-mouse game he’s playing with the victim.

By continuing to stalk her, he’s continuing to control her.

And as long as he is able to reap sadistic pleasure, he’ll see no reason to stop playing his game.

The other motive is revenge.

If the victim discarded the narcissist first, he will be hellbent on reversing this action.

Since life is a game to them, their game, they cannot allow a victim to ever defeat them.

Discarding them first means the victim won. And that’s simply unacceptable to a narcissist.

So they’ll go to great lengths to regain entrance into the victim’s life in order to change the outcome of the game.

They make sure to be the one doing the discarding this time around.

And they do it in a way that is surely to cause the maximum amount of grief possible to the victim.

If you happen to be dealing with a Malignant Narcissist, the stakes go up considerably.

This psychopathic individual is extremely dangerous. And is likely planning to cause physical harm, including death, to the victim.

The type of discard they have in mind is much more sinister than just ending a relationship first.

They may be intending to end the victim’s life

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Is It Okay To Stay In Contact With A Narcissist Just To Know What They’re Thinking, As Long As You Know What They’re About?

It’s a really bad idea to stay in contact with a narcissist, period.

And as far as wanting to know what they’re thinking, that’s not a realistic option, either.

You’ll never know what a narcissist is thinking.

Because they’ll never tell you the truth.

You’ll be lied to and manipulated without even realizing what’s happening.

And if you do realize you’re being toyed with, I have to seriously question why you would be willing to subject yourself to that kind of guaranteed torment.

If you’re truly aware of what a narcissist is about, for the life of me, I can’t fathom why you would want to remain in contact with this person.

If you still love the narcissist, you’re only going to open yourself up to more pain.

And if you’re not in love, what could possibly be your motivation for wanting to continue to communicate with someone whose only goal in life is to cause chaos and misery in the lives of everyone around them?

I hope you’ll choose to avoid all narcissists at all costs.

You’ll never find a friend, soulmate, or trustworthy human being in a narcissist.

Obviously, the choice is yours to make.

I can only warn you against remaining in contact with any narcissist.

I do hope you’ll heed my advice, and anyone else’s advice who answers this question.

You’d be hard-pressed to find anyone on Quora who will say otherwise.

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When A Narcissist Is Caught Cheating, Do They Always Discard Their Lover And Stay With Their Spouse?

Not always.

They’ll probably stay with both, provided each continues to be a good source of narcissistic supply.

And they’ll lie their asses off to convince each source that they’re the chosen one.

I’d like to point out that just because a narcissist gets caught with one source doesn’t mean that she’s the only person he’s cheating with.

A cheating narcissist always has multiple sources.

It’s called having a harem.

And it’s a continuous merry-go-round of recycled exes, transitional supplies, and occasional sex partners (also known as friends with benefits).

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What Causes An INFJ To Have Sense Of Humor Failure?

There are lots of things that can cause me to temporarily lose my sense of humor.

But it always comes back relatively fast.

Narcissistic Abuse, however, caused me to lose my sense of humor for a long time.

So long that I completely forgot how to laugh.

I wasn’t consciously aware that it had happened until after my marriage to a Malignant Narcissist ended.

Even then, it was a few months after going No Contact before I realized I hadn’t laughed in quite a while.

And that I really missed it.

I wanted to be happy again, and to find humor in life.

But it wasn’t as easy to regain my ability to laugh as I thought it would be.

Once I finally had it back, I swore I’d never allow anyone or anything to rob me of my sense of humor again.

Now I make it a point to laugh as often as possible.

And I treasure every single giggle.

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Will An Order Of Protection For A Year Keep A Narcissist Away?

Probably not.

Narcissists are notorious for violating protective orders. They think rules and laws don’t apply to them.

But it’s a good idea to have an order of protection in place. It’ll make it easier for the police to charge him.

And it protects you in case you have to take extreme actions against him.

Since narcissists have an inflated sense of entitlement, and because people are objects to them, he sees you as his property.

He feels like it’s his right to take possession of something he owns.

And in his mind, that’s you.

Another thing that narcissists are notorious for is lying to law enforcement and blaming the true victim.

A protective order will provide clarification to the arresting officers and keep you from being wrongly charged.

I’ve had protective orders in place for years, and my Malignant Narc ex has violated every one of them.

Honestly, they’re more for your own legal protection than for your personal safety.

My advice is to have a safety plan in place, and stick to it.

Be extremely careful and don’t let your guard down.

Arm yourself with whatever weapon is available to you, and don’t be afraid to use it.

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