Narcissists And Parental Alienation

Quora Answers: Why Do Narcissists Introduce Your Children To Their New Pursuits So Quickly? What Is The Motivation For Them Behind This?

Narcissists are always motivated to create drama and chaos with the intention of causing you as much misery as possible. How better to do it than through your children?

Ultimately, they want to subject you to the misery of parental alienation. They may tell the kids you don’t love them anymore or that you wish they had never been born.

They’ll tell despicable lies as examples of your bad behavior. They’ll encourage resentment, doubts, and negative thinking in the children’s minds.

Since kids are easily influenced by their parents, they’ll likely believe a good bit of what they’re told. You can be mother/father of the year, but continuously being told by the other parent that you don’t love them will make them wonder who to believe.

If all goes according to plan, the new person will be seen as a type of savior and become a surrogate parent. Introducing them quickly lays the groundwork to ensure success.

This will drive you crazy, of course, and the Narcissist will enjoy it tremendously. Having to share your children with your ex is bad enough. Competing with the new flame for your kids’ affection is like a stake through the heart.

Normal people don’t want children to be put in the middle of adult issues. Unfortunately, narcissistic parents thrive on it.

Never mind the damage it’ll do to your kids. That’s of no concern to a psychopath.

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Quora Answers: More Lies A Narcissist Husband Tells His Wife

Why Would A Narcissist Not Leave Marriage Due To Having Young Children And Claiming He Can’t Leave Because They Are Finally Old Enough For Him To Connect Emotionally And Be Able To Have Conversations?

For several reasons. And none of them are good.

First of all, a narcissist can cause chaos and drama for you and the children much easier if he’s still in the home.

It’s also more convenient for him to create parental alienation with full access to the entire family.

Another reason he doesn’t want to leave is because the marriage benefits him in ways he’s not yet inclined to give up.

It could be for financial reasons, monetary gain, or a desire to maintain the status quo.

It could be that you’re the main breadwinner, and he doesn’t want to work.

Whatever the reasons happen to be, none of them are because of love, loyalty, or devotion to the children.

Depending on what ype of narcissist your husband is, his reasons may be much more sinister.

Some narcissists are extremely sexually deviant and engage in incest and child molestation.

Be aware of the signs of child sexual abuse, and always remain vigilant.

I know that’s a very tough pill to swallow, but don’t allow yourself to be fooled into thinking it won’t happen.

Another possibility is that he is planning to leave the marriage, but wants to do it in a way that will inflict maximum damage.

If he can convince you that he’s a committed father who would never abandon his kids, your shock and disbelief will be more entertaining to him when he makes a hasty exit.

If you’re not already aware that narcissists are incapable of love, it’s time to come to terms with a very cruel reality.

No matter what they may say about loving their children, it’s simply not true.

Narcissists are not capable of love or empathy – not even for their own children.

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Quora Answers: Are Children Disposable To Narcissists?

Does A Narcissist Parent Disappear When Their Children Recognize Their Lies?

My Malignant Narcissist ex-husband did.

And when he tried to come back months later, he attempted to hoover both our son and me.

To say it didn’t work is a bit of an understatement.

Colton is autistic.

He doesn’t have a filter that prevents him from saying exactly what he thinks.

So in no uncertain terms, he let his father know he was aware of his bullshit.

And that he wasn’t going to be fooled again,

It would’ve been funny if it hadn’t been so scary.

As is typical of a narcissist, he instantly turned on his son.

And treated him like a sworn enemy.

It became very volatile for a while.

Colton was subjected to a horrible verbal assault that almost turned physical.

When my ex finally gave up on tormenting Colton, he turned on me, of course.

When he finally left, Colton came out of his room, wielding a hammer.

To our great relief, we didn’t hear a word from the narc again for several months.

As a mother, it’s hard to comprehend that a father could hate his own child.

But that’s exactly what happens with a narcissist.

As long as the child remains fooled by the mask, the narcissist will make token efforts.

They’ll at least pretend to care.

But once the child is aware of what lies behind the mask, all bets are off.

At that point, the narc no longer bothers to pretend.

And often simply disappears from the child’s life.

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Quora Answers: Narcissists And Pregnancies As A Tool To Control

My Narcissist Ex Got Me Pregnant On Purpose Without My Permission So He Could Have More Control Over Me. Is That Legal? Can I Use That In Court?

In the United States, where I live, it’s perfectly legal for a man to impregnate an adult woman through consensual sex.

When you say he got you pregnant without your permission, do you mean he raped you?

Narcissists are well known for using pregnancies as a way to gain more control over their partners.

Both male and female narcissists are guilty of this.

Inevitably, the child will become a pawn that the narcissist will use mercilessly to torture the other parent.

While none of the things I mentioned are illegal, they are immoral and cruel.

Unfortunately, they’re not prosecutable offenses.

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Quora Answers: Narcissistic Fathers

How Do I Move Forward With My Life Knowing That My Narcissist Ex Doesn’t Acknowledge Our Child? He Acts As If She Doesn’t Exist.

As a parent, it’s hard to comprehend that someone wouldn’t acknowledge their own child.

Or even seem to care that she exists.

Narcissists are not like normal parents, though.

They are not capable of feeling love or empathy.

Not even for their own children.

In actuality, the narcissist’s indifference to your child is the best thing for her.

The worst thing would be to have him in her life.

Let me tell you why.

I have two sons from my marriages to narcissists.

My oldest son is the golden child of my Covert Narc ex.

When he was five, his dad and I divorced.

A lengthy and very ugly custody battle ensued.

For years, I dealt with parental alienation. I missed birthdays, holidays, and special events.

Because the narc continually violated our custody agreement.

Now my son is an adult.

Sadly, he is also a narcissist.

And he doesn’t give a damn about me.

He hasn’t even spoken to me in over a year.

My youngest son, who is autistic, is the child of my second husband, a Malignant Narcissist.

That poor child has been through hell.

Before I finally escaped from that nightmarish marriage, he witnessed things no one should ever see.

He saw his father abuse me in horrible ways.

But worse than that, he was abused himself.

In every way.

You will be doing the best thing for your child by keeping her narcissist father out of her life.

I cannot stress enough how much damage narcissists do to their children.

I can’t undo the damage to my own children.

But I can urge you not to let it happen to yours.

You should accept the fact that her father doesn’t love her.

And never will.

From one mother to another, I’m telling you that it’s a blessing in disguise that your narcissist ex doesn’t acknowledge her.

Be thankful and move on.

Otherwise, you will be sacrificing your child’s wellbeing.

Would you take a knife and cut her throat?

Of course not.

But if you keep the narcissist in her life, that’s exactly what he’ll do.

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Quora Answers: The Narcissist And The Golden Child

Why Does The Covert Narcissistic Parent Allow The Golden Child To Abuse His Siblings?

Because he’s grooming the golden child to be just like himself.

Narcissists think they’re superior to everyone else. He thinks he’s doing the child a favor by teaching him to abuse and exploit others.

My ex-husband, a Malignant Narc, used to encourage our son to be abusive to me. He would tell him that stupid people like me needed to be hit to make us act right.

He also encouraged him to abuse my dog. He said the dog and I were on the same level mentally.

If the narcissistic parent is allowing the golden child to abuse the other siblings, there’s probably a lot more going on that you’re not aware of. Things that you would never imagine to be possible.

They don’t just stop at teaching them to abuse others. He may be teaching him his own sexual perversions, as well.

I’m only bringing this up to warn you. I certainly wish I had been warned. My ex forced our autistic son to watch torture porn, gay porn, and God knows what else.

He also sexually abused him.

When our son started calling his dad out on his lies and bad behaviors, he quickly went from golden child to mortal enemy. Narcissists don’t love their kids.

Not even the golden child.

In closing, I should mention that the golden child is doomed to either become a narcissist himself. Or to become a victim, unless you intervene.

At this point, you are the only hope that child has of escaping a lifetime of misery. Please step up and do whatever is necessary to save your child.

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