Processing Pain Is Necessary In Order To Heal From Narcissistic Abuse

I just answered this question on Quora. It’s one that every survivor of narcissistic abuse will have. Not necessarily from me. But when victims first start to recover, it’s natural to ask for advice from survivors who have been through the same experience. I hope my answer is helpful. The question is: May I AskContinue reading “Processing Pain Is Necessary In Order To Heal From Narcissistic Abuse”

What Is The Best Way To Make A Narcissist Think Twice Before Attacking Or Abusing You?

I didn’t think I would ever make my ex think twice about attacking me, but a few months ago, I managed to do just that. My 13-year-old son, who is autistic, and I, had been in hiding for four months. I had a restraining order against the narcissist, and he also had 2 warrants forContinue reading “What Is The Best Way To Make A Narcissist Think Twice Before Attacking Or Abusing You?”

My Narc Ex Told Me I Was His Soulmate. Now He’s Gone Back To His Ex. Is He Telling Her The Same Thing? We Only Split 3 Weeks Ago.

He’s been telling his ex these things throughout their entire relationship, so he’ll definitely continue. But he won’t stop there. Narcissists are always on the hunt for new sources of supply, regardless of how many current sources they have at any given time. They repeat the same patterns with each source, and very often, theContinue reading “My Narc Ex Told Me I Was His Soulmate. Now He’s Gone Back To His Ex. Is He Telling Her The Same Thing? We Only Split 3 Weeks Ago.”

Can You Have A Healthy Relationship With A Narcissist?

The only possibility of having a healthy relationship with a narcissist is if the narcissist is self-aware, and is undergoing long-term intensive therapy. This is a very rare occurrence since most people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder don’t believe there’s anything wrong with them. One of the harshest truths someone in a relationship with a narcissistContinue reading “Can You Have A Healthy Relationship With A Narcissist?”

Did Your Narcissist Offer Any Emotional Support When Your Loved One Was Dying?

When my mom was dying, the Malignant Narcissist I was married to prevented me from going to her. My dad was out of town and called me to ask that I go check on her. He had been trying to call her, but didn’t get an answer. At the time, my oldest son was livingContinue reading “Did Your Narcissist Offer Any Emotional Support When Your Loved One Was Dying?”