Flying Monkey, Narcissist, Or Another Victim?

Quora Answers: Do Flying Monkeys Pretend To Take Your Side?
She Admits He’s Abusive And Complains About Him. Then She Turns Around And Shows Me Posts About How Much He Loves His New GF.

Flying monkeys will definitely pretend to take your side when they’re trying to manipulate you on behalf of the Narcissist.

However, I’m not so sure that’s the case here. Two possible scenarios come to mind.

One is that she’s also a Narcissist, and is enjoying herself at your expense.

It could be a version of the mean-sweet cycle in toxic romantic relationships. She pretends to be a sympathetic friend one minute.

Then she intentionally causes you pain by showing you posts about his new girlfriend.

Think of the devaluation and gaslighting techniques of the Narcissist.

Another possibility is that she’s having an affair with him.

I don’t know the nature of your friendship with this person. Is she a long-time friend to you?

Has she displayed this type of behavior before?

If you were friends and it is an affair, she may be having mixed feelings.

One minute, she could be dealing with guilt that comes with betrayal.

The next minute, she may be jealous because the Narcissist is triangulating the two of you.

If she’s a victim of the Narcissist as well, she would certainly have unstable emotions.

This is the kind of cruelty Narcissists find so entertaining.

He gets to feel powerful while continuing to cause you misery.

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Quora Answers: The Narcissistic Landlord

What Are The Red Flags Of A Narcissistic Landlord?

Narcissistic landlords will invade your privacy at will. This includes entering your living quarters without your knowledge or consent.

Although this is illegal, the narc sees absolutely nothing wrong with it.

He’ll also have no qualms about pilfering your belongings if he fancies something for himself.

As is true of all Narcissists, smear campaigns and senseless gossip will be a regular occurrence.

He’ll entertain himself by creating drama and chaos for unsuspecting neighbors who would otherwise co-exist peacefully.

These landlords will be unlikely to properly maintain the rental units, and may even refuse to make necessary repairs.

They’re well known to manipulate tenants into paying for the costs themselves.

They make assurances that the expenses will be reimbursed or deducted from the next month’s rent.

This never happens, of course, and if confronted, the narc will flatly deny ever making such an agreement.

He’ll keep up with your comings-and-goings, and take note of your visitors’ habits, as well.

If he sees an opportunity to instigate turmoil with this particular knowledge, all the better.

Sometimes narc landlords damage their own rental properties in order to collect insurance money.

One couple I know lost all their possessions after a fire of unknown origin destroyed their duplex.

To add insult to injury, they were considered suspects and subjected to a lengthy arson investigation.

The landlord had an abnormally high occurrence of similar fires at several of his properties, though he was never charged with a crime.

The voyeuristic parasites may have hidden video cameras and/or recording devices so they can spy on your most private and intimate moments.

Probably the most common red flag is the multiple attempts to gain sexual favors from anyone they deem to be exploitable.

Narcissistic landlords love to prey on vulnerable tenants and will harass them mercilessly.

This is by no means a complete list of red flags. But hopefully, it’ll give you an idea of how despicable these vermin can be.

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What’s The Value Of A Relationship With A Narcissist?

Quora Answers: I’m In A Long-Distance Relationship And I Think She’s A Narcissist. How Do I Stop Myself From Contacting Her?

I’m going to assume you’ve correctly identified her as a narcissist.

With that in mind, maybe you should look at it from the perspective of value.

What do you value most in life? What really matters to you?

What are you not willing to live without? What are you willing to give up?

Do you value your physical and mental health? What about your self-confidence and self-esteem?

Do you want to keep your sanity and sense of humor?

Do you cherish your family and friends?

Maybe you take pride in having a good reputation and excellent credit.

Or maybe you just bought your first home.

Did you work hard to build a successful business or career? I doubt you’d want to throw it all away.

Perhaps you have a new car that you really love?

Do you have children who adore you, and whom you treasure more than life itself?

The people, places, and things you value most are what you’re most likely to lose with a narcissist in your life.

Plan to give up everything you hold dear.

Or plan to give up the narcissist. It’s a choice only you can make.

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Quora Answers: Narcissists And Supply Sources

How Will A Narcissist Act Around His Former Supply After Being Discarded By His Latest Supply?

A Narcissist has a revolving door in his harem, so sources of supply come and go.

At any time, he’ll have plenty of choices at his disposal. There will always be former, current, and random sources riding the Narcissistic merry-go-round.

For the most part, they won’t know about one another. His behavior around each will depend on who he’s mirroring at the time.

When a narcissist is hoovering a previous source, they generally use the same M.O. every time.

They call, or show up, out of the blue to catch the target off guard. Then a form of renewed love-bombing begins.

“I’ve been missing you lately, and couldn’t stop thinking about you. I see now what I had with you. You’re everything to me.

I must’ve been out of my mind to leave you. You’re so beautiful and smart and sexy.

I had to break up with Jane because she’s not you. Just give me another chance.

I promise I learned my lesson. I realize how much I love you. That’s why I had to come see you.

Plus, Jane is crazy . . . .

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