What Makes A Narcissist Keep Going Back To A Certain Ex?

Do Some Narcissists Recycle Their Exes? Narcissists absolutely recycle exes, and the reasons vary. Sometimes it’s because the ex still has something monetary that the narc wants. Sometimes it’s for sex. A lot of times it’s because the narc is bored and wants to enjoy the sadistic pleasure he gets out of torturing his ex.Continue reading “What Makes A Narcissist Keep Going Back To A Certain Ex?”

Processing Pain Is Necessary In Order To Heal From Narcissistic Abuse

I just answered this question on Quora. It’s one that every survivor of narcissistic abuse will have. Not necessarily from me. But when victims first start to recover, it’s natural to ask for advice from survivors who have been through the same experience. I hope my answer is helpful. The question is: May I AskContinue reading “Processing Pain Is Necessary In Order To Heal From Narcissistic Abuse”

My Narc Ex Told Me I Was His Soulmate. Now He’s Gone Back To His Ex. Is He Telling Her The Same Thing? We Only Split 3 Weeks Ago.

He’s been telling his ex these things throughout their entire relationship, so he’ll definitely continue. But he won’t stop there. Narcissists are always on the hunt for new sources of supply, regardless of how many current sources they have at any given time. They repeat the same patterns with each source, and very often, theContinue reading “My Narc Ex Told Me I Was His Soulmate. Now He’s Gone Back To His Ex. Is He Telling Her The Same Thing? We Only Split 3 Weeks Ago.”

Do Narcissists Enjoy Torturing You Or Do They Really Just Not Care If They Do?

Narcissists really enjoy torturing their victims. It’s not that they don’t care if they do. They actually want to. That’s the reason for the mind-fucking games like triangulation and sabotage. They set out to cause as much pain and confusion as possible because it makes them feel powerful. They think that if they hurt you,Continue reading “Do Narcissists Enjoy Torturing You Or Do They Really Just Not Care If They Do?”

Do You Wish You Had Never Met Your Narcissist Ex?

I used to wish I’d never met my Malignant Narcissist ex. But that was before I realized how strong I became in the aftermath of our relationship. Don’t get me wrong. It sucks to go through the chaos that life with a narc brings. It sucks to have everything you’ve ever believed about people beContinue reading “Do You Wish You Had Never Met Your Narcissist Ex?”