Quora Answers: Narcissists And Covert Abuse

Might A Narcissist Secretly Inflict Physical Harm On A Victim? Hell yes, they will. But you’ll probably never be able to prove it. With that said, I’ll give you a few examples of how my Malignant Narcissist ex-husband secretly inflicted physical harm on me. He gave me a glass of Kool-Aid laced with enough meth to kill two adult men. I ended up in Intensive Care, and came very close to dying. I found out later that he told the doctors I’d intentionally overdosed. Since I was unconscious at the time, I couldn’t dispute his lies. When I regained consciousness, … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Covert Abuse

Quora Answers: The Narcissist’s Wife And Spite

Two Months After Surgery. Notice The Scar On My Neck. Did You Cheat On Your Narcissist? Yes, I did. Before I go any further, let me say that I’m not proud of it. Not because of anything having to do with him. But because I believe it’s wrong. Despite having had an awful marriage, and being divorced, I still believe in the institution of marriage. I don’t think it’s right to be unfaithful to one’s spouse. With that said, I’ll tell you why I cheated on him. I’m not justifying my actions. But simply telling you my mindset at the … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Narcissist’s Wife And Spite

Quora Answers: The Slighted Narcissist

What Seemingly Immediately Happened When Due To A Perceived Slight, A Narcissist Became Angry At His Relationship Partner? What happened to me when my Malignant Narcissist ex-husband felt slighted ranged from total degradation to extreme physical violence. Whether the perceived slight was misconstrued, or intentional on my part, didn’t matter. Once he became enraged, all hell generally broke loose. For me, anyway. Sometimes he would spit in my face. Other times, I got dragged around by my hair. He almost always hit me in the head with his fist. At one point toward the end of the marriage, he punched … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Slighted Narcissist

Quora Answers: Narcissists And Strangulation

When A Narcissist Strangles A Victim, Will He Do It Again? Is It Likely That He’s Done It Before? Speaking from personal experience, I can almost guarantee a repeat episode. If a narcissist strangles a victim, it will happen again. And it most likely happened before. When I was still living with my Malignant Narcissist ex, I knew our 18-year marriage was coming to an end. Though at the time, I didn’t think I would survive it. And with good reason. I woke up one morning. And had barely gotten out of bed. When he grabbed me without warning. Before … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Strangulation

Quora Answers: Narcissists And Domestic Violence

What Made You Finally Leave The Narcissist? Like most victims of domestic violence and narcissistic abuse, it took several escape attempts before I finally left my Malignant Narcissist husband for good. We had been together for 18 years. And I took my share of abuse throughout those years. I won’t go into the dynamics of why it took so long for me to leave permanently. But it definitely wasn’t because I enjoyed being abused. That is such a horrible thing for a victim to be accused of. Especially when it’s coming from people she cares about. As much as I … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Domestic Violence