Quora Answers: Narcissistic Behaviors

   Why Do Narcissists Constantly Talk About Their Exes? The reason a narcissist constantly talks about their exes is because they are choreographing your present and future behavior. A narcissist conditions his sources in various ways by using his or her ex as an example of what not to do. They use indirect persuasion byContinue reading “Quora Answers: Narcissistic Behaviors”

Quora Answers: The Aftermath Of Narcissistic Abuse

Is It Normal To Feel Like You Were Used And Violated After Coming Off A Long Relationship With A Narcissist? It’s very normal to feel like you were used and violated after coming off a long relationship with a narcissist. Because you were, in fact, used and violated. It started at the beginning and continuedContinue reading “Quora Answers: The Aftermath Of Narcissistic Abuse”

Quora Answers: Narcissistic Relationships

Why Did I Ignore The Signs That He Was A Narcissist And Get Into A Relationship With Him Anyway? Most likely, for the same reason I did. You probably had no idea what kind of hell was in store for you. How could you have known? Normal people simply don’t think about choosing a victimContinue reading “Quora Answers: Narcissistic Relationships”

Quora Answers: Devaluation

Does A Narcissist Enjoy When They Start To Devalue A Partner Because It Makes Them Feel Less Vulnerable? Absolutely. A narcissist definitely enjoys devaluing their partner. Whether it’s because it makes them feel less vulnerable or simply because they’re sadistic assholes depends on their mood at the time, I suppose. They had to work duringContinue reading “Quora Answers: Devaluation”

Quora Answers: Explanation Of Narcissism Phrases

What Do The Terms “Hoovering,” “Flying Monkeys,” Etc. Mean When Talking About Narcissistic Behaviors? “Hoovering” refers to the narcissist’s ability to suck the victim back into the abusive relationship after being previously discarded. It’s so named after the Hoover vacuum cleaner. A “flying monkey” is someone who serves as a proxy for the narcissist. InContinue reading “Quora Answers: Explanation Of Narcissism Phrases”