Why Does A Narcissist Always Start Arguments Over Little Things?
Narcissists intentionally start arguments in order to provoke an emotional reaction from you.
When the inevitable boredom sets in, they lure you into circular conversations to entertain themselves.
Picking a fight over something silly or inconsequential is pretty much guaranteed to aggravate you.
Conversations are competitions to narcissists, and they play to win. By constantly changing the rules, they know your irritation will increase significantly.
They create drama and chaos to force you to react emotionally. You try to stay calm, but you’re human.
After a while, you’ll have a normal reaction and snap. Once you’ve lost your patience and show your temper, they’ve won.
Now he’ll calmly tell you, in a condescending voice, that you have anger issues. According to him, you’re the one with the problem.
When normal people get into arguments, they’re attempting to resolve some type of issue or conflict.
Narcissists argue to create even more conflict. They especially love when the conflict is within your own mind.
After the argument, you’ll think about what he said and blame yourself for overreacting. You’ll wonder if you’re the crazy one.
First, the narcissist drained your energy with the relentless tossing of word salad. Now he’s continuing to erode your identity.
Because he was able to make you doubt yourself, another layer of self-esteem has been whittled away.
In the mind of a narcissist, that’s two victories in one. With that level of success, arguing is a game they never get tired of playing.
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