Quora Answers: Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder And Psychopathy

Why Does A Narcissist Have To Belittle Others To Feel Great?

To completely understand why narcissists belittle others, one has to understand psychopathy and Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

Narcissists are obsessed with controlling their victims.

They can’t control people who have healthy boundaries and self-esteem.

So they have to destroy yours by belittling, teasing, and with triangulation, manufactured jealousy, and mean-sweet cycles.

They also do it to cause their partners to self-destruct once they start to see cracks in the narcissist’s mask.

When a victim points out inconsistencies, the abuser fears that he’s losing control.

He wants to make her feel crazy, so she’ll doubt her own intuition.

He does this by employing various brain-washing techniques that began during the love-bombing phase.

By first claiming to love certain aspects of your personality, he conditions you to depend on his approval.

Later, by devaluing what he once claimed to love, he’s able to cause you to have doubts and loss of self-esteem.

Narcissists build you up with the intention of tearing you down.

If a victim appears to be happy, they see that as a threat to their control.

Because they don’t feel happiness like normal people, they despise our emotions.

What they do feel is a sadistic type of pleasure when they’re able to destroy our joy.

They wreak havoc on our lives because they’re easily bored.

Causing conflict and pain for us entertains them, giving them the sadistic pleasure I just mentioned.

Narcissists are cowards.

They’re not capable of maintaining a healthy relationship with a strong, self-respecting person.

So they attempt to strip you of your self-esteem and boundaries.

Controlling you is the only way they know how to keep you.

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