Quora Answers: The Narcissist’s Wife And Spite
Two Months After Surgery. Notice The Scar On My Neck.
Did You Cheat On Your Narcissist?
Yes, I did.
Before I go any further, let me say that I’m not proud of it.
Not because of anything having to do with him.
But because I believe it’s wrong.
Despite having had an awful marriage, and being divorced, I still believe in the institution of marriage.
I don’t think it’s right to be unfaithful to one’s spouse.
With that said, I’ll tell you why I cheated on him.
I’m not justifying my actions.
But simply telling you my mindset at the time.
For the first fifteen years of my marriage to a Malignant Narcissist, I was completely faithful.
The last three years before I left him were the worst years of my life.
The man I fell in love with no longer existed.
He had been replaced by an abusive monster whose goal in life seemed to be to make me as miserable as possible.
The abuse escalated to a point where I was constantly on High Alert, with good reason.
One morning, without warning, he went into a violent rage.
After dragging me around the house by my hair, he picked me up and threw me onto our back deck.
The way I landed caused three disks in my neck to rupture, essentially breaking my neck in three places.
Because of the location of the injuries, only a neurosurgeon was qualified to do the necessary surgery.
I had to be placed on a waiting list.
It was nine months later before the actual operation took place.
During that time, I was unable to function.
All three disks were pressing on nerves, and as a result, I was constantly in excruciating pain.
By the time I had the surgery, I had built up a lot of anger and resentment towards the narc.
He never once acknowledged any fault for what he did.
He continued to be abusive, despite the fact that I had a broken neck.
I grew to despise him with every fiber in my body.
One day, a couple of months after the surgery, I got a message on Facebook from a guy I went to high school with.
He was living in Atlanta, just a few minutes from where my sister lived.
It just happened to be where my nephew’s wedding was going to be the following month.
Ric and I started talking every day and ended up making plans to see each other when I came to town.
Long story short, we spent two nights together before I went back home.
I never would have even considered doing something like that before the narc so callously threw me outside like trash.
And I didn’t embark on a long drawn-out affair with Ric.
I did it for revenge.
As bad as that sounds, it’s the truth.
And that’s why I cheated on my Narcissist husband.
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