Quora Answers: Narcissistic Fathers
How Do I Move Forward With My Life Knowing That My Narcissist Ex Doesn’t Acknowledge Our Child? He Acts As If She Doesn’t Exist.
As a parent, it’s hard to comprehend that someone wouldn’t acknowledge their own child.
Or even seem to care that she exists.
Narcissists are not like normal parents, though.
They are not capable of feeling love or empathy.
Not even for their own children.
In actuality, the narcissist’s indifference to your child is the best thing for her.
The worst thing would be to have him in her life.
Let me tell you why.
I have two sons from my marriages to narcissists.
My oldest son is the golden child of my Covert Narc ex.
When he was five, his dad and I divorced.
A lengthy and very ugly custody battle ensued.
For years, I dealt with parental alienation. I missed birthdays, holidays, and special events.
Because the narc continually violated our custody agreement.
Now my son is an adult.
Sadly, he is also a narcissist.
And he doesn’t give a damn about me.
He hasn’t even spoken to me in over a year.
My youngest son, who is autistic, is the child of my second husband, a Malignant Narcissist.
That poor child has been through hell.
Before I finally escaped from that nightmarish marriage, he witnessed things no one should ever see.
He saw his father abuse me in horrible ways.
But worse than that, he was abused himself.
In every way.
You will be doing the best thing for your child by keeping her narcissist father out of her life.
I cannot stress enough how much damage narcissists do to their children.
I can’t undo the damage to my own children.
But I can urge you not to let it happen to yours.
You should accept the fact that her father doesn’t love her.
And never will.
From one mother to another, I’m telling you that it’s a blessing in disguise that your narcissist ex doesn’t acknowledge her.
Be thankful and move on.
Otherwise, you will be sacrificing your child’s wellbeing.
Would you take a knife and cut her throat?
Of course not.
But if you keep the narcissist in her life, that’s exactly what he’ll do.
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