Quora Answers: No Contact
What Is The Best Method To Deal With An Abusive Narcissistic Ex Who Won’t Let Go And Is Making Credible Threats? i.e. “I’ll destroy you,” “I’ll hurt your new boyfriend,” “I’ll bankrupt you.”
No Contact is pretty much your only choice.
And I don’t mean simply ending all communication with the narcissist.
Though that’s definitely got to happen.
I’m talking about moving somewhere that he can’t find you.
Blocking him on social media, getting a private phone number.
And changing people, places, and things, to name a few.
Also, make sure you don’t let hin know about your plans in advance.
My Malignant Narcissist ex-husband made similar threats when I told him I wanted a divorce.
By telling him ahead of time, I set myself up for a nightmare.
When I tried to leave, he sabotaged my car so that it wasn’t drivable.
He took every form of communication from me and wouldn’t let me out of his sight.
Not even to go to the bathroom.
That went on for months.
I had no contact with the outside world.
And he tortured me mentally, physically, and emotionally.
He also tried to kill me.
When I was finally able to escape, I took my son and we left with nothing but the clothes on our backs.
I told no one where we were going because I didn’t even know myself at first.
I quickly found out that he had stolen my identity and forged documents in order to destroy me financially.
Everything that he had threatened to do, and then some, came to pass.
But I was alive.
The point I’m trying to make is that you should never take an abusive narcissist’s threats lightly.
Never underestimate the lengths they’ll go to in order to destroy you.
For your own safety, going No Contact and changing everything possible is by far your best bet.
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