What Is The Best Way To Make A Narcissist Think Twice Before Attacking Or Abusing You?

I didn’t think I would ever make my ex think twice about attacking me, but a few months ago, I managed to do just that.

My 13-year-old son, who is autistic, and I, had been in hiding for four months.

I had a restraining order against the narcissist, and he also had 2 warrants for his arrest.

Still, he had been managing to stay one step ahead of the cops, and was still a free man.

I had been as diligent as possible, but I knew eventually, he’d find me.

And he did.

At 2:00 in the morning, April 12, 2019, I couldn’t sleep, so I started cleaning the kitchen. I took the garbage outside, but had another bag to take out. I left the side door unlocked for less than 2 minutes!!

All of a sudden, the door opened and he waltzed in like he owned the place.

I screamed, and he laughed. He had a maniacal look in his eyes, and I knew I was in trouble.

Fortunately, my son and I had a safety plan.

The narc bastard was so arrogant that he underestimated our son’s and my desire to stay free of him.

By forcing me into my bedroom, my son was able to get away and call for help.

It sounds cliche, but it was just like a movie. The cops got there just in time, with guns drawn.

Until they showed up, I wasn’t sure if my son was even awake, much less whether or not he had gone for help.

It was truly a beautiful sight to watch the son-of-a-bitch being escorted to a squad car with his hands in cuffs.

My son is a true hero. When my ex was placed under arrest, all he had on him was a knife.

Nothing else. No wallet or keys.

Later, when I went through the SUV he had previously stolen from me, I found a loaded 9 mm pistol with a bullet in the chamber and an extra clip.

He spent four months in jail, and eventually pled guilty to reduced charges. A protective order remains in effect until 2021.

I think it’s safe to say he’ll think twice before trying to attack me again.

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Originally Answered By Serena Prince On Quora.

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2 thoughts on “What Is The Best Way To Make A Narcissist Think Twice Before Attacking Or Abusing You?

  • As much as I’d like to say that this person who abused you is to be condemned, destroyed, eaten alive by whatever nightmare could be thrown at them…

    I’d still like to say that this person who abused you, did not wake up one day and was this way.

    These distorted mindsets develop over time. I’m not as experienced as you seem to be in these subjects. All I do is think, and perhaps think too much.

    I tend to try to understand somebody, or somebody’s way of thinking. Every mindset develops over time, and I do know that a descent down into a Hellish mindset is a far shorter process, than a rise towards wisdom and maturity. I also believe that no matter how much darkness one has thrown, like a quilt, over their own remorse, there’s always a part of that person who wants to say, “I am sorry for all I’ve done.”

    I don’t know if the same is true for you, though such Narcissists are also people who experience immense pain, within themselves. Am I feeling sorry for them? I indeed am, because their victims, like you, are just as much affected by their actions, as their actions are affecting them; though, they don’t display remorse, because each terrible action such people commit, is like tossing dirt onto something that is treated like it is dead. Trying to ignore something that should be treated for its life, for its beauty, is something that a Narcissist or anyone else with a disturbed personality, is doing to themselves, as much as they do against other people.

    I find that it takes FAR more strength to forgive, than it takes to simply walk away from such people.

    I also hope that my words didn’t offend, as I know this is a deep subject for anyone having personally experienced it.

    • I’m not offended at all by your words, and am grateful that you took the time to comment.
      I was married to this man for 18 years. Throughout the marriage I held onto the belief that he just had anger management problems, abandonment issues, and was abused as a child. I desperately wanted to believe that his actions weren’t intentional and that he would change somehow.
      Even after he tried to kill me, I forgave him.

      Turns out that he is a sadistic Malignant Narcissist, and the only thing he was sorry about was that he didn’t succeed in killing me.
      I had to come to terms with the fact that if I stayed in the marriage, I would end up dead. So I got out, and have been working on forgiving someone who isn’t sorry.
      That’s easier said than done. I do pray for him, but I will always keep my distance from now on.
      Again, thank you for your comments!! Xoxo

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